An Australian an
Israeli and two Americans – one from New York and one from the
South – walk into a bar in Guatemala. After a few drinks, the
conversation turns political. This cannot end well can it?
It's a common
saying that the two things you should avoid talking about when
drinking are religion and politics. I'm a big believer in this
generally. They're two topics that people generally have very strong
views about there's almost no chance a drunken conversation is going
to change them. All that tends to happen is people getting frustrated
at each others lack of logic and all too often it degenerates into a
heated argument about how stupid the other person is.
Having said that,
when you're travelling you're meeting new people every day –
whether it be fellow travellers or locals – and many of these will
be unlike anyone you would normally meet at home. They'll have been
brought up very different and as such have very different beliefs and
attitudes than you, and it can be incredibly interesting to find out
your differences.
I've been
fortunate enough over the last ten years to make some great friends
from all over the world spanning the full spectrum of political and
religious beliefs. Before my travelling I liked to think I was very
open to other ideas and concepts out there, but I probably wasn't.
I'd largely just been talking to people who had the same (or very
similar) views to myself. Like with anything, you're unlikely to
think about other points of view if you've got nobody to present them
to you.
I remember meeting
an American many years ago in Europe who had vastly different views
on a wide range of topics from myself. We had some good conversations
and I learnt a lot about her views and how she to them – even if I
wasn't going to be agreeing with her any time soon.
On one occasion,
an Icelandic man who noticed my friend's accent started to shout
abuse at her for the political wrongs of her country – both real
and imagined – without knowing a thing about her as a person. It's
this kind of pre judgement and intolerance to other ideas that make
many political conversations turn ugly. Since that meeting, Iceland
suffered a catastrophic financial meltdown with it's share of
political corruption, while I now consider the American a very good
friend.
Decisions made in this building are often the subject of conversations among travellers
In some countries,
it's talking with locals about politics that can be dangerous. While
the people of Burma are among the friendliest in the world, their
government has far from a friendly reputation. While they're starting
to open up a lot more these days – and start to embrace a measure
of democracy – many of the local groups there still fear the
government and do not want to discuss anything to do with politics. I
think as a general rule when travelling, if the locals don't bring it
up, neither should you.
As for my group
sitting around a table in a bar in San Pedro, Guatemala, I was quite
proud of the way we listened to each other's views – and boy did
they differ – and things never got out of hand. Nobody changed
anyone else’s opinion on anything, but that wasn't the point. We
were just four people from four different backgrounds trying to
understand where each other was coming from.
Travelling has
given me a lot; I've met some of my closest friends and seen some of
the greatest sights in the world, but I think the ability listen to
and appreciate other points of view has been one of the biggest
things I've gotten out of it.
It may still be a
work in progress, but hey, it's not like I'm going to stop travelling
any time soon.
Keep that attitude but don't stop believing in what is right and wrong in your mind! Experience is education but common sense is inherent. You're still alive because you're part of Darwin's theory (and a little lucky or maybe someone's watching over you) but your soul belongs to no one else but you. Learn what you can, accept what you can't control and move quickly and decisively. Survival is everything!
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